I totally know why everyone says don't rush the big boy bed. I really, really wish that we were not forced to move him from the crib, but ultimately, we just had to do it to keep him safe.
Unfortunately, it's been quite a challenge. Evenings really aren't that bad. It's probably because his room is completely dark, and he's usually pretty tired, and he usually falls asleep in about five minutes. Mornings were rough, but have gotten much better. He was waking at 4:00 in the morning and wanting to come into our bed, but I think we've stopped that.
However, nap time is the absolute worst. I don't know if it's because it's the middle of the day and his room is pretty bright, or because he just isn't very tired, but this weekend was really rough. On Saturday, it took me 90 minutes to get him down. Sunday, I turned the reins over to Lou and it took him about 45 minutes. Both days, after numerous negotiations, back rubs, songs, books, and conjoling, we just closed the bed room door and let him cry. Saturday, he cried for about 5 minutes, and Sunday for about 3 minutes. However, both days, after it quieted down in there, we went in and found him like this:



