Monday, December 26, 2011

#206 - A Special Request for Santa

This year, Lou had to work on Christmas Day, so we made a special request to Santa, who happily obliged - he visited us a day early!  What a kind man that Mr. Clause is.

Since about Halloween, Owen has been looking forward to his visit.  He's been building a Santa wish list for weeks, and the promise of his arrival (and the threat of his cancellation) has been enough influence to keep Owen in relatively good behavior.  I'm not quite sure how we are going to get him to go to bed at a decent hour without bringing up the "Santa's knows if you are good or bad" line.....

Just like I'd always imagined, Owen came running into our room the morning of "Christmas" so excited to see what Santa had brought.  He climbed up into our bed and pleaded and pleaded for us to get up and out into the living room.  It was awesome.

Our family picture before all the present opening began

Owen dove right into his stocking before tackling the presents under the tree

Our two boys on Christmas morning 

Opening their joint present from Nana - a new crab trap!

Tearing away the paper

Benjamin just hung out all morning taking it all in

More presents.  Each one brought a big smile!  Santa was very good to us this year.

One final picture of Nana and Benjamin!  What a doll.

We were very blessed this year.  It was nice to spend it at home, but bittersweet to be away from the rest of our family.  We stayed in our pajamas until late in the afternoon when we headed to the Children's Mass at church.  It was a long mass - nearly two hours - and the boys were itching to get home and play with their new toys.  I can remember exactly what that's like!

Merry Christmas to you!  Hope you had a wonderful day celebrating the birth of Jesus!


Sunday, December 25, 2011

#205 - The Shy Bell Ringer

Owen's preschool had a Christmas program, and our little boy was one of the bell ringers.  Check out the little lefty below.  He was so shy and quiet during the program, which we are not used to seeing at all.  His personality is quite different at school.  Our outgoing, rambunctious toddler at home is a reserved, rule-following student in his classroom.  Imagine that.

#204 - A Visit to Santa

The weekend before Christmas, Aunt Jen and Kaylin came to Savannah to visit us.  It was a great visit, and the kids had a blast playing together.  We even braved a trip to the mall to get some last minute gifts....not the best idea.  But, on Sunday, we went up to the Lodge for Breakfast with Santa.  I was quite impressed with the event - lots of Santa availability and pretty good food.  Neither Owen, Kaylin nor Benjamin were scared of Santa and sat there patiently while we snapped up tons of pictures.  When Santa asked Owen what he wanted for Christmas, Owen quietly asked for a fishing pole.  Uh oh....  Santa had not heard this request yet this year, so he had to get very busy getting a fishing pole ready for Christmas Eve drop off.  

Kaylin - 3, Benjamin - 6 m and Owen - 3

The two cousins
It was so sweet seeing them play together.  I love how close in age they are.

Kaylin is such a kind, pretty girl.  She gives lots of hugs and kisses, and has grown into an independent child.  She looks exactly like her mother did at that age.

Look how much Kaylin is grown.  Owen really isn't all that bigger anymore.  He used to have a solid 6 inches and 5 pounds on her.  Not any more!

Aunt Jen and Aunt Katie
When I see us together in pictures, I still think we are in high school, living at home.  You blink.... and the next thing you know, we're both married with kids.  How did that happen so fast?  

Thanks Jen and Kaylin for coming to visit us!  We hope you come back very soon!  (And that fishing game has been played every single day since you left - Owen loves it).  Love you!


Friday, December 16, 2011

#203 - Benjamin has Surgery

After months of repeated ear infections, our sweet little baby had surgery today to get tubes put into his ears.  Everything went well, and Benjamin was such the little trooper.

His first ear infection came in July, when he was less than two months old.  From that point on, he had ear infections every single month all the way up to today where he still had an infection.  In fact, many of them were probably continuations from old infections because we had a hard time getting them to respond to antibiotics.  During all of the treatments, we discovered that he is allergic to Amoxicillen and Augmenten (Penicillen meds).  Ear infections respond best to those two drugs, so we were pretty limited in what we could give him to help, thus making his ear infections hard to clear up.  

After the really bad illness he had during Thanksgiving week, our pediatrician said we needed to see an ENT for a tubes consult.  Sure enough, the ENT doctor agreed, telling us that because of his age and allergies, tubes were needed.  

So, today was the big day (and I know that tubes are a very easy surgery, but any time your child is being put under anesthesia, it's scary).  Benjamin did great, though.  Despite not being about to eat after midnight, he was happy this morning, giving grins and giggles to the nurses and doctors at Memorial.  Although Lou had to work today, he was able to be with Benjamin and me the entire time we were there.  


He was the one to carry Benjamin back to the operating room and hand him over to the anesthesiologist (they asked him to stay in there, but Lou did not want to see the surgery).  It happened so quickly!  Our surgery was scheduled for 8am.  We got there at 6:30, were checked in by 7:00, in the pre-op room by 7:05, and he was taken back to surgery by 7:15.  Lou and I waited in the anesthesia break room, and in less than ten minutes, his phone was ringing saying that Benjamin was in Recovery!  I could hear his cries from down the hall.  He was a bit out of it and unsure of his surroundings.  We were able to hold him and feed him and within about fifteen minutes, he was feeling pretty good again:


The surgery came at the right time - today, Benjamin had a double ear infection again.  The doctor said that as soon as he put a hole in Benjamin's eardrum, a bunch of pus came rushing out.  Gross.  So, we are praying that the tubes will allow all the gunk to drain out, and he will be able to live the next six months of his life without the constant ear pain he's had to deal with until now.  (And maybe, just maybe, he might even start sleeping a bit better at night.)

They moved us to another recovery room (this is the third room in less than an hour!), and he quickly fell asleep while I held him.  Before we knew it, we were getting discharged!  I was in my car, driving home at 8:10am.

This picture below was taken at 9am.  You can see that he was feeling good, and back to his normal self.  In fact, today was one of the best days he's had in a long time.  He was happy, in a good mood, took two good naps, and was so much fun to be around.  I'm so glad I was able to have the opportunity to spend the day with just him.  Good memories!  I'm not sure if it's directly from the surgery and the relief in his ears, but I'll take it!  Now, let's just pray that he stays that way during the night!

We have to take him into the ENT in a few weeks to check the tubes.  They could stay in for up to a year.  And, unlike the old days, we don't have to worry about keeping him away from water - the doctor says he can bathe, swim, even scuba dive, if he was old enough.  The newer studies show that water does not affect the tubes or put him at risk for an infection.  So, we'll live life as we normally do, and pray for two healthy, happy children.

Thank you for all of your well-wishes and prayers today.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

#202 - More Pictures from Thanksgiving

These pictures are long overdue, and I apologize.  It's been a rough few weeks.

The Tylutki's beautiful Thanksgiving table

Primos

Me and the little guy

Abuela Isa and the grandkids 
All of us

Butterball

Tito and Owen playing "Itsy Bitsy Spider" - it's their thing

Thursday, December 1, 2011

#200 - A little peek at Michigan

A few pictures from our trip to Michigan.  More details to come later......

Owen, Grace, Benjamin and Noah after church on Sunday

Benjamin with his godfather

Gracie and Benjamin - he was rarely far from her during the week.  She is so good with both of the boys!

Primo Pete and goofy Owen

Owen with Tito Ignacio (or as Owen calls him - Tito Mafio)

Lou with Adelina and Elena - this was about the time that Benjamin started to get sick

Owen LOVED playing air hockey and even managed to get Abuela Isa in the basement playing it with him!

The two primos

Visiting with Sofia Maria, Kelly and Greg
Tita Susan and her little buddy

Look at that pitiful face - this is how he looked for at least three of the days we were there.